Translation
The revolutionary emergence of women that would be appropriate to write about the experience of two women who in the past were not known to society two women who had different backgrounds, arising from two families with different backgrounds. However, the situations they experienced are almost the same and which have beautified their lives. This was experienced by Tengku Zawyah and Diana Naim. There is no need to write about who these people were because they are well known in society.
The stories are the same because they were left behind by a human named īmanī, which to them was their source of protection and guidance in life. However, in the end everything was destroyed within a blink of an eye. Maybe what had taken place was destiny. Whatever it was, the experience that they witnessed together cannot be forgotten just like that. Being friends and knowing one another is easy to develop, however, to forget such a relationship or love the first time round is indeed very difficult, and the probability exist that it will take a very long time to forget.
Surely one might ask why the writer says so, but it is the beginning of the revolutionary rise of women. From the writerīs point of view, the perseverance and patience experienced by both these women can become an example to other women abroad also. In the past a conservative society considered a divorced woman, now known as a single mother, or a person who has had a broken engagement to be a disgrace or a shame. The shame is not only felt by the individual but also by the whole family. There are some who are not prepared to even step out of their homes because of shame and all kinds of accusations, which are bound to be cast by society. However, what is about to be presented concerning the story of Tengku Zawyah and Ina, can become an example that this world does not come to an end when women are abandoned. If it is viewed positively, the experience can become an inspiration to wards the reviving happiness.
Perseverance and strength within both these women should become an example to women who consider themselves to be single mothers. Remember that this world does not come to an end if one is abandoned up by a man. Continue your life with happiness and believe that there is wisdom in everything that takes place. Maybe true happiness will appear in the future. The writer agrees with what has been said by Ina, that loving the first time is difficult to forget, and the words of Tengku Zawyah over living together for 20 years is not easily forgotten.
What was published in the September 2006 issue of NONA which covers the feelings of Tengku Zawyah, who was steadfast to become a pillar of strength to her children. The bravery of Ina on the other hand is viewed as an example of a strong woman, who is not easily defeated or gives up. Even though some may say that Ina only desires to seek cheap publicity, however, if it is viewed positively, it provides guidance to other women, so that they may become steadfast and brave.
View this case from a positive perspective and you will benefit from it. Do not view it from a negative perspective, the result will be negative. The writer is also of the view that if we want to view whether something brings about goodness or badness, view it from your heart and not physically only. No matter what the situation of both these women were, it is hoped that women out there are able to become women of steadfastness and strong towards every trial. Remember, that in the softness of the heart and behaviour of a woman there is resoluteness and strength which is seldom realised by anyone. Discard all sadness that befalls you and become a woman full of happiness in this world. [Translatorīs Note: This is a translation from the article in Bahasa by Norhuriyatina Salleh. Unfortunately I have no idea of what really took place]. |
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